You know that feeling when you’re driving behind someone and they’re going below the speed limit and you’re in a rush? The feeling of agitation that builds deep in your heart, the agitation that lights up your mind and creates a frenzied state? Or how it feels when...
The Assignment – Should You Accept
For many, if not all, having purpose sustains emotional stability. Losing purpose is often a catalyst for feeling lost or depressed and lacking vision in life. For those who’ve felt a lack of purpose, you know intimately the hollowness that it can bring to your...
Transformation – cliché, obsession, or essential?
I’ve been a 1000 different women, all of whom have had to die in order for me to be me. You know it in your body, the parts of yourself that have to die in order to move forward, the parts of yourself that need death to make way for birth. Holding on to old parts,...
Does setting ‘boundaries’ feel cringy?
We’re living in an amazing time, there’s so much information traveling through our individual and collective spheres. Ten years ago the phrase ‘setting boundaries’ was rarely heard. I recall using it with a colleague and was told I was too firm by being clear around...
The Health Benefits of Community
About 25 years ago I wanted to live in a community called Noelleville; a place where I had all my friends. My vision wasn’t a town that revolved around me, it was for community, I just didn’t have the language to express that. I wanted to have a life that was full of...
Why have we never been told this before?
Nobody tells us that life isn’t going to turn out like a fairy tale. As children, we often get the message that we can have or be anything we want. Coupled with movies with happy endings and the shiny (unrealistic) world of social media, that message is being...
Maturity
Recently I received an email from someone that was struggling. The email was filled with accusations and calculations of what they felt was wrong with me and ended by severing ties in a dramatic and ‘blow up your connection' kind of way. I didn’t find the email overly...
Being quiet, when ALL WE WANT is to fight back.
Recently I was compelled to have a difficult conversation with someone I cared about – the relationship had hit a roadblock and an important conversation needed to happen. I never like these types of conflicts, but I’ve learned – the hard way – that when I don’t have...
To all those who’ve been considered the ‘Black Sheep’
I was considered the black sheep of my family, which always confounded me. I believe it was because I didn't follow suit, I pushed against convention and believed in systems that didn't exist. I would resist against and be defiant. I would go after the things I wanted...
All your goodness – a loving reminder
Dear one, this is a loving reminder - perhaps you’ve forgotten or just need a gentle reminder. In case you’re unaware, I want to remind you that you’re being held by great forces and the laws of your world are designed to bring you into alignment with many of your...